Frequently Asked Questions
My spouse won't agree to a divorce. Can I still get one?
Yes, by filing a contested petition on a ground under Section 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act, such as cruelty, adultery or desertion for two years. You must prove the ground with evidence. Irretrievable breakdown alone is not a ground before a Family Court. Only the Supreme Court can dissolve a marriage on that basis (Shilpa Sailesh v. Varun Sreenivasan, 2023). A contested divorce lawyer can help you assess and prove the ground.
What counts as mental cruelty for divorce?
It means conduct so serious that you cannot reasonably be expected to keep living with your spouse. Examples include sustained humiliation, prolonged refusal of intimacy and deliberate neglect (Samar Ghosh v. Jaya Ghosh, 2007). Filing false criminal complaints against a spouse and their family can also be cruelty (K. Srinivas Rao v. D.A. Deepa, 2013). Ordinary quarrels are usually not enough.
How long does a contested divorce take in Mumbai?
Commonly two to four years at the Family Court in Bandra, although Section 21B of the Hindu Marriage Act asks courts to aim for six months. The case moves through counselling, written statement, evidence, cross-examination and arguments. Many contested cases settle midway and are converted into mutual consent divorces.
Can I use WhatsApp chats and call recordings as evidence?
Generally, yes. Section 14 of the Family Courts Act allows the court to consider any material that helps it decide the dispute. Electronic records need a certificate under Section 63 of the Bharatiya Sakshya Adhiniyam (formerly Section 65B of the Evidence Act). The Supreme Court has held that secretly recorded calls between spouses are admissible (Vibhor Garg v. Neha, 2025).
If I move out of the matrimonial home, will it count as desertion?
Not if you had good reason. Desertion means leaving permanently, without reasonable cause and without consent, for a continuous two years. Leaving because of cruelty or violence is not desertion, and the spouse whose conduct forced you out may be the one held to have deserted (Bipinchandra Shah v. Prabhavati, 1957). Keep a record of why you left.
What happens if my spouse doesn't come to court?
If your spouse has been properly served and still stays away, the court can proceed ex parte and decide the case on your evidence. Where the spouse lives abroad, service goes through the Hague Service Convention, which takes longer. A contested divorce lawyer can help present the evidence and respond to the procedural requirements in such cases. An ex parte decree can be set aside only if the absent spouse shows sufficient cause for not appearing.
Disclaimer: This is general information, not legal advice.
